Workplace relationships are more common than many employees and employers expect. Under Massachusetts employment law, romantic relationships at work are not automatically prohibited, but they can raise serious legal concerns if boundaries are unclear or power dynamics are involved.
Workplace romance can raise legal issues related to sexual harassment, retaliation, discrimination, and company policy compliance. Understanding how the law applies helps protect both individuals and businesses.
Key Takeaways
- Romantic relationships at work are not prohibited in Massachusetts.
- Relationships involving supervisors or HR raise heightened legal concerns.
- Favoritism tied to a relationship can contribute to discrimination or hostile workplace claims.
- Retaliation after a relationship ends is a common source of legal risk.
- Clear policies and training help prevent disputes.
Are Workplace Relationships Legal in Massachusetts?
Massachusetts law does not ban consensual workplace relationships. Employees are generally free to form personal relationships at work, so long as those relationships do not violate anti-discrimination or harassment laws.
That said, consent alone does not eliminate all legal risk. A relationship that begins consensually can become problematic if one person later feels pressured, treated unfairly, or if the relationship affects others in the workplace.
For background on how Massachusetts defines harassment in the workplace and what conduct is unlawful, see the firm’s article on Recognizing Sexual Harassment in the Workplace
Power Imbalances and Legal Risk
Workplace relationships where one person has authority over another are especially risky. This includes relationships between supervisors and direct reports and managers and employees whose job conditions they have influence over.
Under Massachusetts law, courts and the Massachusetts Commission Against Discrimination look closely at whether one person had real power to influence the other’s job conditions. Even without a formal quid pro quo, if a supervisor’s authority appears connected to the relationship, it can support a harassment claim.
Why HR Relationships Are High Risk
Relationships between HR professionals and employees present specific problems. HR handles confidential complaints, discipline, investigations, and policy enforcement. A romantic relationship involving someone in HR can undermine confidence in complaint processes, create conflicts of interest, and expose the company to claims of biased handling or favoritism.
Favoritism Can Lead to Claims
Favoritism by itself is not unlawful under Massachusetts law. However, when favoritism appears connected to a romantic relationship, especially involving a supervisor, it may support claims such as hostile work environment, gender discrimination, or unequal treatment among staff.
For more on hostile work environment claims and related examples, see the firm’s article on Understanding Harassment Claims in Massachusetts Workplaces.
When Romance Turns Into Sexual Harassment
Massachusetts law prohibits sexual harassment in the workplace, which can include conduct that creates a hostile or offensive environment. Even a consensual relationship can lead to a harassment claim if one party continues unwanted contact after the relationship ends, behavior affects another employee’s ability to work comfortably, or conduct becomes unwelcome or intimidating.
Post-breakup conduct is one of the most common sources of harassment claims.
For additional context on how these issues can show up outside the office, see Sexual Harassment and Workplace Social Events.
Retaliation After a Relationship Ends
Retaliation is a major legal risk in Massachusetts. Employers may not take adverse action against an employee because they ended a workplace relationship, reported harassment or discrimination, rejected advances, or participated in an internal investigation.
Actions that may be unlawful retaliation include demotion, reduced hours, negative evaluations, exclusion from opportunities, or termination.
For guidance on how retaliation claims arise and what evidence matters, see How to Prove Retaliation in Massachusetts.
Can Employers Regulate Workplace Dating?
Employers are allowed to adopt policies addressing workplace relationships. Common policy elements include disclosure requirements for relationships involving supervisors, rules preventing supervisors from reporting directly to someone they are dating, and transfer or reassignment options to prevent conflicts of interest.
Policies must be applied consistently. Uneven application can lead to discrimination claims.
Massachusetts employers also have obligations to maintain a harassment-free workplace and train employees. For example, Massachusetts law requires employers to adopt a policy against sexual harassment that includes specific elements.
If helpful for HR teams, the Commonwealth has a Model Sexual Harassment Policy that may be useful.
Can Workplace Romance Work?
Some workplace relationships succeed and even lead to long-term partnerships or marriage. From a legal standpoint, the risks are not because people date at work. The risks arise when relationships affect job decisions or workplace culture, or when one person feels pressured, threatened, or treated unfairly.
Maintaining clear professional boundaries, following company policy, and addressing issues respectfully are key ways to prevent legal problems.
Workplace relationships raise complicated legal questions for employees and employers. Understanding rights and responsibilities under Massachusetts employment law can prevent disputes and protect careers.
If you have questions about workplace relationships, harassment concerns, or company policies, contact Rodman Employment Law to discuss your situation with an experienced Massachusetts employment attorney.


